Wednesday, August 14, 2013

Are Indian Men Chauvinist???


Indian men are Chauvinist or not? Can be best answered by woman all around the world. But what I perceive is that they are, and those urban Indian guys saying “they aren’t”, are more Chauvinist than guys and also women in rural, not stating that women in urban India aren’t Chauvinist themselves against other women or girls. The biggest support for men all around India for being Chauvinist is the support of other women. Men themselves have a prestige which they think the women doesn’t, and women who actually don’t have such prestige, support the men in their act of Chauvinism, a very usual act of woman in which they can’t see any other woman being better than them. The Indian woman (Urban and Rural), the majority of whom have Chauvinism towards other women are a bigger threat than the men, as they have support of both the men and other chauvinist women. Thus men feel proud about their act of Chauvinism , as they have huge support behind them. The other problem with men for being Chauvinist is there Physical strength. Men around the world have a trait of showing their physical strength; especially in the places where they think they can be easy winners. And where is the best and sure chance of them being the winner? With a Woman. Thus men know even if they lose in front of the women in words, they have an alternative way to win. Not necessary they use their physical strength on them, it’s enough that they know it and also know that the women fear it. Parents and so called Relatives (P & so R) are one of the biggest reasons for an Indian Man to be Chauvinist. (P & so R) to be precise would be of both the Men and Women, especially after marriage and in special cases just before marriage. (P & so R) of men in India have a habit of indirectly educating their male children with their knowledge of cruel acts a woman is capable of doing, forgetting the fact they were themselves born out of them , and the knowledge receiver is also born of a woman –they would call wife. The best is of (P & so R) of the girl’s side who indirectly and in some cases directly educate the female children to know that Chauvinism is one of the special addition to the package they are getting in getting married, so they should accept it in the most humblest way possible. I am very positive towards the change which is happening in our society towards removing Chauvinism, but it would surely take a lot more time.....

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